DO GOOD... SEEK JUSTICE... CORRECT THE OPPRESSOR... DEFEND THE RIGHTS OF THE FATHERLESS CHILD. - Isaiah 1:17

She was my daughter.  I was her father.  She was taken from me and given to a man KNOWN to have raped, abducted, strangled, and beaten a woman.  He had a long list of crimes from bank robbery to burglary and dozens more crimes inside and outside of prison.  He spent most of his adult life in different prisons.  
When I tried to protect her, FAMILY COURT ignored his criminal history and the BEST INTEREST.  The only consideration was AJ's choice, as a 14 year old.
She was a teenager who was manipulated.
She chose the parent that gave her more freedom, as most teenagers would do, given the choice.  But she was also lied to and pressured.
By the time she was 14, and FAMILY COURT had run through our family like a wrecking ball, AJ had pretty much erased me, the only father she knew and all of the family and friends from my side.
This is not ok.
This is child abuse.
One year after FAMILY COURT FAILED and removed me as a father, the scoundrel who knew Anjelica for 2 years, as a teenager was allowed to ADOPT HER!
Three years later he abducted her, strangled and poisoned her, and dumped her body in a ditch behind an old house 60 miles from home.
He went on to continue to lie and manipulate, initiating interviews with local and national media over and over and even crying and reading his poetry to Anjelica on TV.

HOW WAS THIS SLUG EVER ALLOWED AROUND MY DAUGHTERS???

There were so many opportunities to stop this violent career criminal from wreaking his havoc upon my family.

Where is the accountability for those people who put my children with this dangerous man???

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#JUSTICE4ANJELICA means:
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  • Revoke family court judge, Joe Massey's law license and pension - for ignoring the law.
  • Public apology from Judge Joe Massey to Anjelica's sisters and family.
  • Same for the court-appointed guardian, Charles Johnson for his incompetent, biased, and apathetic work as an investigator (revoke & apology).
  • Public apology from Delaware County, OHIO prosecutor Marianne Hemmeter and affiliated parties for their failure to prosecute Hadsell in 2005.

LEGISLATION and JUDICIAL REFORM that shows Virginia government cares:
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  1. Provide REAL  ACCOUNTABILITY for family court judges and guardian-ad-litems.
  2. MUCH HIGHER EDUCATION and EXPERIENCE REQUIREMENTS for judges and court guardian-ad -items.
  3. ENHANCE MEDIATION EFFORTS in custody disputes.
  4. Require PARENTING CLASSES for ALL  parents and guardians in custody disputes.
  5. Take away the emphasis on CHILD'S RIGHT TO CHOOSE A PARENT.
  6.  Put all criminal accusations through a REAL COURT OF LAW WITH DUE PROCESS PROVIDED.
  7. INCREASE FUNDING TO EARLY PREVENTION DEPARTMENTS in Social Services.
  8. Create TRANSPARENCY in FAMILY COURTS by allowing cameras and reporting data regularly.
  9. Make it a CRIME TO HOUSE CERTAIN FELONS WITH CHILDREN.
  10. Make MANDATORY BACKGROUND CHECKS FOR UNRELATED ADULTS LIVING WITH CHILDREN.

MAKE THINGS RIGHT
  • Revoke Wesley Hadsell's adoption of Anjelica Marie.
  • Allow Zachariah Hoffer to posthumously adopt Anjelica.  He was the only (earthbound) father that she knew, the one that loved her enough to fight for her, to sacrifice for her, to know her, to teach her, to cry with her and to laugh with her.  Her dad.

Anjelica Marie Hoffer (aka AJ Hadsell) went missing on March 2, 2015.  She was found murdered 39 days later.  She was an 18 year old beautiful college athlete and scholar.  She was buried in a ditch behind an abandoned house, 60 miles from home.  Her mother's husband has been charged with first degree murder.

This could have been prevented.

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This is the timeline...

February 2005 - Separation of mom & dad.  Equal parenting time.

2006 - Family Court made 50/50 equal time of all three girls official, after a year long custody battle.

August 9, 2009 - Anjelica begins staying with her mother full time.

Parental Alienation -  Dr. Craig Childress

February 17, 2010 - Wesley Paul Hadsell released from maximum security federal prison (last two years on lock down).

April 9, 2010 - Anjelica's mom meets Hadsell at a bar in Virginia Beach.

April 20-25, 2010 - Mr. Hadsell moves into the home with Anjelica and her two sisters.

May 12, 2010 - They are married.

May 25, 2010 - Anjelica is taken on out-of-state 'honeymoon' and meets Hadsell's family.  I protest.

June 2, 2010 - I file for FULL temporary custody, since the mother would not keep Hadsell away from the children.  Mr. Hadsell had an extensive and violent criminal history, including an indictment in Delaware County, Ohio, for strangulation, rape, and kidnapping.

September 2010 - Anjelica Hoffer is listing Mr. Hadsell as 'father' on her Facebook page.

November 4, 2010 - Judge Joe Massey changes court ordered custody from 50/50 to ZERO for Anjelica.  It remains 50/50 for the other two girls.  The only reason cited was Anjelica's desire.  The court was too ignorant to understand she was being manipulated and lied to.  They ignored the danger she was in.

Teenagers are NOT adults.  They can be manipulated by parents and others.  Custody officials should recognize these signs.

Parental Alienation is a FORM OF FAMILY VIOLENCE (says this study).  These children are in danger.  A parent that allows violent and unstable criminals to live with their daughters - IS DANGEROUS!

(click HERE or HERE to sign the petitions - thank you)

Not only was Hadsell living with the three girls, (ages 7, 9, & 13), but so was his 18 year old nephew, who had a very unstable history.

FAMILY COURTS FAILED!!

Virginia, and most states require that a judge follow the "Best Interest Statutes".  These are the considerations a judge must factor into his decision.

Judge Joe Massey ignored the law.  All but one 'Best Interest' factors were ignored  - 'choice of the child'.

Anjelica had been duped.  She was lured away from a protective and loving father and into the arms of a phony criminal.
 
The family courts ignored Hadsell's crimes of "Family Abuse", which is factor number 9 in the "Best Interest Statutes".

The court-appointed guardian ad litem, performed a highly inaccurate and biased investigation.  See that report below.

His name is Charles Johnson and as of 2019, still operates out of an office on Little Creek Road in Norfolk, VA.

Virginia family court judges and guardians have various LAW DEGREES.  Joe Massey was a construction lawyer before deciding the fates of thousands of Norfolk families, while dressed in a black robe.

 NO PERTINENT EDUCATION is required for judges or GALs.  A GAL need only complete 6 hour online class.

SHAMEFUL.

What do lawyers know about child psychology, social work, family dynamics, parenting, child abuse, etc.??

And if this injustice wasn't enough...

Hadsell's probation officer, Tomas Ramirez, did not inform the father of Hadsell's presence with the children, knowing Hadsell had committed multiple crimes in prison, including stabbing a man in the face - multiple times, gang affiliation, multiple assaults, mental illness, drug abuse, etc..

The probation office also rejected a subpoena for Mr. Ramirez to testify in Family Court.  See that rejection letter below.

The injustice continues...

Early 2012 - Wesley Hadsell ADOPTED Anjelica.  Permission from the only father Anjelica knew, was not needed.

And...

 All of this would be a moot point, if the alleged rape in Ohio, found to be true by a 2005 Grand Jury, was prosecuted in 2005, when it occurred.  Anjelica would undoubtedly be alive right now, having never met this coward.

The rape charges were not prosecuted until 2016, over a year AFTER Anjelica was killed and 11 years after the incident.  In addition to Ohio's failure to prosecute the rape that a Grand Jury found to be true, other felonies were ignored stemming from the 2005 escapade, which included a 2-week nationwide manhunt, offering a $50,000 reward, and finally ending with a high speed pursuit by law enforcement and a wrecked car in a corn field in Illinois.

Today - YET ANOTHER injustice is occurring as it's been over four years since Anjelica's life was taken, and murder charges have FINALLY been filed.  Extending this has caused unspeakable damage and a catastrophic delay of healing.  How accurate are the testimonies going to be as this trial drags out into the indefinite future?

Am I just a disgruntled dad looking for someone to blame?  You could chalk it up to that if it makes you feel better.  But, these weren't just simple 'mistakes'.  This was repeated, pure incompetence.  It's a systemic hatred of families and fathers in particular, which is systemic abuse of children - our most precious commodity.


THIS REPORT BY CHARLES JOHNSON, (COURT-APPOINTED GUARDIAN DURING 2010 CUSTODY) IS SUPPOSED TO BE UNBIASED AND THOROUGH IN ORDER TO PROTECT THE CHILDREN DURING THE CUSTODY DISPUTE.
IT IS FILLED WITH BIAS AND LIES.
-- MR. JOHNSON ACTUALLY  BLAMES THE WOMEN THAT HADSELL ASSAULTED (2005) AND KIDNAPPED (1998)... pgs 3 & 8
-- STATED HADSELL'S 2005 OHIO VICTIM WAS ARRESTED AND PART OF THE ROBBERY.  COMPLETELY FALSE.... pg 3
-- STATED HADSELL WAS OUT OF PRISON SEVERAL MONTHS BEFORE HIS ACTUAL RELEASE, LEADING JUDGE TO BELIEVE THE MOTHER AND HADSELL HAD KNOWN EACH OTHER LONGER THAN THEY ACTUALLY HAD... pg 1
-- STATED HADSELL DID 2 YEARS IN NC PRISON.  IN FACT IT WAS ALMOST 4 YEARS... pg 1
- SHOWED NO CONCERN FOR HADSELL'S 18 YEAR OLD "BROTHER" ALSO LIVING IN THE HOME (with 3 girls aged 7, 9, 13)... pg 2

MR. JOHNSON REPORTS THIS ABOUT THE VIOLENT CAREER CRIMINAL WHO JUST MOVED INTO THE HOME:
"stayed compliant"
"willing to get on the straight and narrow"
"found employment"
"desires to make good of his marriage"
"youthful indiscretions'
"his girlfriends seem to end up getting themselves into hard situations."
"clearly understands he is on federal probation."
"speaks well of his self-control"
 "nothing... that would lead me to believe Mr. Hadsell presents a danger or threat to them."

MR. JOHNSON REPORTS THIS ABOUT THE FATHER TRYING TO PROTECT HIS DAUGHTERS:
"Mr. Hoffer did not handle the situation well. He was very antagonistic and more than a little self-righteous."
"the only father Anjelica had known", BUT "see no reason to force visitation", and "only his step-child"
Almost half a page of  false heresay about a job the father was fired from SEVEN YEARS PRIOR.
Fails to mention the father had 50/50 custody for 5 years prior.
 

UPDATE!!  
On Oct. 31, 2017
JUDGE JOE MASSEY
 RESIGNED!! #RESIGNJudgeJoeMassey

BYE FELICIA

This construction lawyer, turned judge, has finally ceased his reign of destruction.

Mr. Massey 'resigned' one week after I filed the last in a series of complaints.  
I can only hope that he resigned because of what he had done to my children.

Yes I am angry.  And I am hurt.  But this is the truth that needs to be told - for #justice4Anjelica and to show how destructive family court is, so we can change it.

What would you do?

12.28.17 - Complaint to
judicial Inquiry Review Commission

Judge Joe Massey DID NOT follow the LAW.
He neglected EVERY SECTION of the 'Best Interest of a Child' state code. the Canons AND the Judge's Bench Book.
He did NOTHING about the incompetent 'Guardian' - Charles Johnson.
He did NOTHING to protect my children.
He aligned with an abusive ALIENATOR to ERASE me from my oldest daughter's life.
He took custody of AJ from me, her father, and gave her to a SEXUALLY VIOLENT CAREER CRIMINAL!!



1.4.18 - JIRC response - Massey

If the Judicial Inquiry & Review Board can't do anything about a judge neglecting to follow the law - 
WHO CAN???



9.21.10 - guardian report for custody dispute

Charles Johnson, severely violated the Standards to Govern the Performance of a Guardian ad Litem, when he failed to adequately investigate the criminal record of the man living with my children.  The ‘guardian’ was in err so many times, that it’s hard to imagine it wasn’t purposeful. He downplayed the man’s criminal history, stating he had done less than 2 year in prison during one particular sentence, when it was more than 3, not including the year and a half from age 17-19.  In his report he practically gloated about how great the man was doing, stating “he had self-control”, “a lively awareness of the consequences”, was “confident he will behave appropriately”, called his crimes “youthful indiscretions”, “desires to make good of his marriage”, “willing to get on the straight and narrow”, and went so far as to state, “his girlfriends seem to get themselves in hard situations” and even erroneously reported that the woman who was beaten, strangled, raped, and taken against her will was also charged in the bank robbery.  COMPLETELY UNTRUE, but that’s how your minion Charles Johnson described a man who kidnapped two women, was accused of raping and assaulting several times, and violated protective orders.  Yet when it came time to talk about me, Mr. Johnson spent an entire paragraph talking about a job I had gotten fired from 7 years prior, and reported that I did not handle things well, calling me “antagonistic” and “more than a little self-righteous”.  He had nothing positive to say about me. He was apparently angry at me because I brought up his lack of response, to you in court. And of course, you did NOTHING. Just as you did NOTHING in reaction to his bogus report or even after the trial, in reaction to my complaint that I wrote to you.  Instead, he remained a ‘guardian’ for 5 more years, undoubtedly destroying many lives, as he, nor you, had any respect for the role of a father, and he especially, having never been one himself.
 



8.10-26.17 - emails with guardian charles johnson

During the custody trial, I begged the 'Guardian' - CHARLES JOHNSON - to act to protect my children, and especially Anjelica, from a dangerous situation.  He ignored my communication for two weeks and finally responded when I threatened to complain.  His response was rude and unprofessional and was NOT in the best interest of my children.




9.29.10 - The mother's  questionnaire during custody trial

This questionnaire to Anjelica's mom, is full of lies and exaggerations to take the focus off of her and her reckless behavior letting two men live with my daughters. 
 
She says she knew WH for two months. 
They met 4.9 - moved in 4.20 - married 5.12.
She says it was the same courtship as with me.
BUT..
Her and I met online, phone, letters - 11.97
we met in person - 6.98
began living together - 8.98
we married - 8.2000

She calls herself the primary caregiver.  
BUT..
We split all time and responsibilities down the middle, except for the first year of our separation, while she was getting on her feet and I had the children much more often.
I was involved in EVERYTHING, from school work and activities to extracurricular stuff and school, and providing healthy food and their own rooms and beds and good clothes and a safe place to live and love and attention.
She became primary as she stole the children one by one....

She says my anger is why Anjelica chose to stop being my daughter.
LIE.
I was angry AT THE MOTHER about her stealing my oldest daughter and putting all of my girls in danger.
I did get angry at Anjelica at first, because she was getting distant and then stayed with her mom.  That was my mistake, because in ACTUALITY, it was the MOTHER (and her weasel husband), who manipulated Anjelica's mind & heart....

There is NO REASON to erase a loving and attentive and very active and responsible father from a child's life.

Don't judge me by my attitude.  I am a loving father.  I am angry that my children have been hurt.


 


10.2000 - subpoena to hadsell probation officer & response

Probation Officer Tomas Ramirez did not inform me when WH moved in with my children.  Mr. Ramirez would NOT testify in the custody hearings about WH's history because of cited legalities, despite WH's OBVIOUS danger to children.

 

6.19.2004 - letter granting adoption from bio dad

Although Anjelica and I did not share DNA, she took after me in many ways because I was the only father she knew.  In 2006, her mother told her I wasn't her biological father.  This was at the same time that she tried to get custody of the girls.   It was a very ugly and divisive move, made out of jealousy because I was very close with the girls.  In this email from the biological and totally absent father, I was granted permission to adopt Anjelica.  Jennifer, Anjelica's mother, never told me this and instead stuck to her story that he was not cooperating.  In 2016 Rammel, the bio father, told me that Jennifer had a child support case against him that began soon after she took Anjelica from him, and that he loved Anjelica  but knew there was no hope in him getting visitation so he essentially gave up. 

Anjelica was known by all as Anjelica Hoffer, until she was 16, when she was fraudulently adopted by the career criminal that her mother had known for 2 years at that point.  Meanwhile the mother was influencing Anjelica to forget about me and telling her I didn't care or love her.  That woman is a liar.



Wesley Hadsell's criminal history


    Wes hadsell criminal record prior to 2010




In 1999, when Mr. Hadsell was 20, he was convicted of kidnapping his girlfriend who had just turned 16.
After serving 3 years in prison in North Carolina for that along with burglary, breaking and entering, and fraud, he moved to Ohio and married a woman.

In Aug. 2005 he allegedly raped, strangled, and kidnapped his wife while she had a restraining order against him for Dom. Violence.  He took her across the country, robbing along the way.  There was a nationwide manhunt for him and he was finally caught, after a high-speed car chase involving multiple law enforcement agencies and a helicopter.  He wrecked the car, injuring his wife and he was later found hiding in a field.

Later in 2005, a grand jury determined he likely raped, assaulted, and kidnapped his wife.  However, he was tried and convicted in federal court for bank robbery and the state charges were not pursued.  His wife immediately divorced him after the interstate ordeal.
 

2005 grand jury indictment for rape, strangulation,
striking, & kidnapping 

While in prison, Wesley Hadsell committed dozens of serious crimes, including stabbing a man in the face multiple times, threatening officers, sex crime, and bizarre rebellious behavior.  He had a serious drug problem and had been know to transport and sell large quantities of drugs before going to federal prison.  He is known to have Aryan Nation affiliation.   Court documents point out serious mental health issues, including ideations with death and suicide.  On his eyelids are the tattoos, "GAME OVER", indicating the game is only over when he is dead in the coffin.
On February 17, 2010, he was released from maximum security federal prison in Victorville, CA.  He had spent his last two years in solitary confinement.

It's been 2 3 4 years and we still wait for justice.  ALL evidence points directly at WH.  
- He broke into a house to ‘find’ Anjelica’s jacket while she was missing.  It’s believed he was planting the jacket to frame Anjelica’s friend.  
- He 'discovered' multiple items of her clothing along a road 25 miles away yet can't explain how he knew the items were there.
- He likely saw Anjelica last. 
- GPS puts him at the location her body was found 60 miles away, close to where he was working.   To see how twisted he is, here he is crying and staring at the camera

Within 2 weeks of her missing, WH was arrested for B & E, threats & Poss. of Ammo.  In late 2016 he was convicted for the ammo and sentenced to 20 yrs in fed. prison, as a Career Armed Criminal.
Just after his federal conviction in 2016, Ohio pressed charges for the 2005 rape, strangulation, and kidnapping of his wife, something the family courts in Norfolk were fully aware of in 2010, when I was trying to protect my daughters from this man.

THESE ARE DIRECT QUOTES TAKEN FROM THE 2016 SENTENCING HEARING.
{This entire manuscript can be found at www.Pacer.gov. or clicking the link below}


"Mr. Hadsell's criminal record began when he was 12 years old. And before this current offense, he has about 14 juvenile adjudications, or adult felony convictions..."

"He has not had just second and third chances, but fourth and fifth, and all the way down the line."

"at every opportunity, he has shown complete disrespect for the law... and for the safety and the rights and the property of others."

[other crimes listed at age 12 and 16]

"..at age 17 indecent phone calls. You served approximately two months in jail."

"As an adult, you have at age 17 the statutory burglary, and you served approximately one year and seven months."

"Age 19, a failure to appear."

"Age 19, another failure to appear."

"And I want to make this record, because the crimes escalate as he gets older."

"In 1996 there's a statutory burglary conviction."

"In 1998, felonious restraint. The defendant restrained a 16 year-old woman and transported her in a car. He violated probation by continuing to contact her and, in fact, impregnated her, after which that restriction was lifted. While on probation, he had violations for grand theft auto and a number of other conditions of probation."

"He has a child with the victim of his forcible restraint conviction. The easy way to put it is that relationship is strained. He's arrears in his child support. She advised she began dating you when she was 14, got pregnant."

"1998, breaking and entering."

"1999, second degree burglary."

"The probation violations after this conviction included charges for felonious assault, domestic violence, rape, and kidnapping. Those charges were dismissed without prejudice, and they came out of an incident that I'll describe later in which the defendant allegedly kidnapped, strangled, struck and then raped his estranged wife multiple times. Those were charges in Ohio, and they have been, I'm happy to report, reinstated, and he'll face those charges down the road."

"In 1999, multiple convictions for forgery."

"The details of his first marriage and the very disturbing allegations from his first wife are detailed in Paragraph 70. I'm not going to hit every part of it here. It is enough to say she reports a vicious, multi-day kidnapping, multiple rapes, punctuated by violence and threats to kill member of her family if she did not comply."

"She realized that the marriage was done. And you had stolen checks. She explained that the conduct in 2005 began when you contacted her to meet regarding retrieving property, you guys began to argue over the divorce, and you hit her in the face with an open hand, you started to push her to the back bedroom, pushed her on the bed and slapped her. When she refused to have sex, you began strangling her while lying on top of her. She reported that she was resistant and frozen with fear.  She advised that you..... She explained she pressed charges on the night the offense occurred. A day or two later, she came home from work and you surprised her by coming out of the garage. She attempted to call the police, but you grabbed her from behind and twisted her neck, pushed her into the bedroom, grabbed some clothes from a drawer and threw the clothes into a bag, forced her into a car and drove off. And you told her different lies in and attempt to justify kidnapping her. During the time she was kidnapped, you would hit, strangle and rape her. She tried to walk away once when you were asleep, but you awoke and caught her. Threatened to kill members of her immediate and extended family or anyone else she tried to get involved. She reported it was almost 10 months later before you were charged with the conduct. She had spent her time trying to heal. She's indicated she was traumatized and not strong enough to go through with the charges."

"In 2005 he moves to the federal system for bank robbery. He gave a teller a note saying that he was armed. He got away. He was later found at a rest stop in Illinois. Fled by car. Was later captured, incarcerated."

"You're incarcerated, and then you're cited for threatening bodily harm three times, setting a fire twice, assault, interfering with a security device twice, destruction of property three times, possessing intoxicants twice."

"...other arrests that were either nolle prossed or dismissed or you were found not guilty. And they were for either B&E, contributing to the delinquency of a minor, reckless driving, aggressive fleeing police, driving on a suspended, felonious assault, rape, domestice violence, obstruction of justice..."

".. it's a path of not just a lack of concern for the law,... but actively flouting the law and violating the rights of others, really at every opportunity."

"There's a history of mental health issues, but also a history of Mr. Hadsell saying what he thinks is going to be in his benefit when it comes time for sentencing."

"Likewise, he claims a history of drug use, including marihuana and cocaine, but he also said that when he was in federal court the last time, he made up claims about drug abuse to qualify for a drug program that would take time off of his sentence, willfully providing false information to the Court."

"Another serious concern for the Court is your mental health history. It's extensive and it's poor and it's troubling..."

"In 2005, records from the Delaware County Sheriffs Office show that you attempted to hang yourself in your cell. ... and the clinician indicated there may be a manipulative aspect to your suicidal ideation relating to possible consequence of this discovery of your escape plan. You were diagnosed with..." [pg 58]

"..you said, "I don't like being told what to do. I have 70 or more prison charges for stabbing a child molester, setting fires, assault and disobeying orders and other things... I'm not sure I can be helped.""

"..you stated you have many issues to address, and you want to "get all of the violence out of my head.""

"You stated that if anything caused you to be rearrested, you would likely kill yourself or die trying to escape."

"That is something you shared in 2010."

"You were asked about your numerous tattoos of skulls and death and you stated "Because I'm fascinated with death."

"You were asked about your tattoos "Game" and "Over" on your eyelids and remarked, "When I die, people will see that all of the bullshit is over.""

"And then they diagnosed you with..." [pg 59]



Parental alienation


Dr. Craig Childress describes it as a dysfunction in the "Attachment System" of a person.  This comes from serious childhood trauma involving separation from a parent.

Personality Disorders develop to help a person compensate.  Dysfunctional behavior ensues.

Those behaviors include an unhealthy alliance with their child, (usually the oldest FIRST), to the point of projecting their deep-seated anxieties into the child's heart and mind.  At some point, if a 'trigger' is set off, that disturbed parent turns against the other parent, as an unconscious reflex against abandonment.  That target parent is then painted as the enemy and once this has happened, it is only a matter of time before the children take on the exact same emotional disturbance.  This is what psychologists call 'splitting behavior', where things are black and white - either for the parent or against that parent.  The child has no choice but to comply or face the wrath of the irrational broken parent.  The wrath includes mockery, withholding love, outbursts of anger, and putting them in the 'enemy zone'.  In the process, the children lose their identity and are afraid to express empathy or love, especially for the targeted parent.

This is not as rare as you would hope.  There are many online support groups filled with thousands of stories of tragedy and broken-hearted parents.

If your child is showing signs of rejecting you as a parent, a lack of empathy, haughty or judgmental attitude, and being treated like an adult by the other parent, splitting behavior, irrational accusations about how you treat them or the food you give them, and is inappropriately concerned for the well-being of the other parent, you may be the target of Parental Alienation by a parent with severe unresolved attachment system trauma.  That parent will fit the criteria for Borderline and/or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  This is CHILD ABUSE.  Dr. Craig Childress, says that the damage from this kind of abuse is second only to sexual incest.  He says the damage is greater than physical abuse and even abuse by an untreated schizophrenic  or bi-polar parent.  The DSM V codifies this abuse as "Pathogenic Parenting" (v995.51).
"Their evil deeds have no limit;  they do not seek justice... in the case of the FATHERLESS."  - Jeremiah 5:28